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I was an only child, parents irascible character, which is very influential to my childhood, grow up, I am a bit introverted and reticent, and even feel lonely, I am quietly determined, my future life must not repeat the same mistakes.

Adult parents retired, I am at home provoked a beam. After being introduced, I know now wife. She was already in the community they work hard, to live more than I thought, social experience than I am wide. Married in 2067, we have the first very good relationship, a chat you can chat 12 hours, but the last two years, she always publicly reprove me.

I opened a teahouse. On one occasion, a customer to drink tea, but he felt that TV does not look good, they do not want to make tea. I let him pay, but the other refused, the wife and the other noisy up. However, I stand aside, no noisy customers.

Indifferent to his wife to see me do not stand up and help her argument, in front of many people's face, began to reprove me. She shouted at me: "I do not reprove you, not a means to bully you, yells at you, you will not even dare to open cavity." I think that the business should be based and for expensive, but she believed that a man on the standing in a line should be, and his wife.

On another occasion, a customer and my father started to argue, leaving ferocious. The man to speak with a curse word, my father was non-compliance, they pushed him, and two people pulling it in such a small place. My father call me hands-on, I think there is no big thing well, it did not move standing, I think certainly not the customers hands.

His wife began to reproach me, saying that I do not help them deal jointly with that person, and that I am weak, and that I is not a man. This is for any people, all can not stand, are a very Shang Zizun thing. The person next to me said she was seen very flat.
I was Jiugei father said it was your own hands first, to push others, who first hands-on, whoever does not. Unfortunately, the wife does not think so.

The most powerful one is that she took something hit me, I had to fight back, she was a knife threatened me, saying that as long as I close, I would Nadao Kan. I have others that she was too hurt my self-esteem, and I very depressed.

The evening of April 8, because the unit dinner, I had 11 points to go home, and she is still with the house across the street neighbor's house a cards. But she was already pregnant for more than seven months, part of labor status. I think she's definitely hungry, give her back to Dai Ledian barbecue. I also told her that was already very late resort to for a while, come back early. I will go back to rest. A result, three or four o'clock, I woke up and found her not to come back. I called her, and she is a look at my phone, they hung up. A separation of more than 10 minutes, seeing that she has not come back, I gave her call, she did not take. Separated for half an hour, I resort to the past, she has been shut down.

I cried from the window across the street had several more, and she also told me once a roar, and she said she knew. Separated for a while, not seen moving, where I fall asleep, but also up and say her home. She asked me trouble Sha Zi, the tone sounds very upset. I am also furious. Next to the estimates by our The couple burst of frustration, no more thoughts continue fighting.
4 points before, she returned, the door energetically open, and entered the room arbitrary rejection thing. I began to reprove the ... ... I am depressed, I was well-intentioned.

She reprove I have become a commonplace, it is really hurt my feelings, I even have some doubts as marriage, the heart is difficult to bear. I have been thinking about how to deal with these things, but there is no answer.

Quarreled before I talked with her all, but things later, like her would reprove me. The past two days, I did not reason her, she did not take the initiative to find me. She never told me why should we reprove me, why make a man so wounded self-esteem thing, Perhaps she does not think that is called chatter.

Few days, I sleep well, my day a little later lost confidence go on like this, really be a divorce. This time, I do not want to compromise, otherwise I would feel very inferior. The child will be born, I do not know will bring good luck to our family?
If the account for reasons, I am not afraid of
Reporter: Do you own assessment that he is not very weak?

Gao Bing: Maybe there may be this point. But I do not stand firm stand to look at reasonable and justified I afraid, how easily, even out of the big things, like the person has died, and my heart will not panic, absolutely realistic, because the bulk will not be borne by me. I do not provoke who first, if the other party no reason to bully me, I will your life. But if indeed my responsibility, I would certainly not speak up.
Reporter: your father's temper, up to now such a hot-tempered, why are you so docile?
Gao Bing: I can not tell, probably parents often quarrel, so I do not like the bar arguing over that issue.
Reporter: divorce, true to such a serious problem it?

Gao Bing: I have not told her Yueqi Guo, I just said to my father. My father said, and her marriage is my choice, and advised me not away from. My family is still very responsible, but I really hard to balance. If divorced, and certainly my heart is bad enough to continue, I do not know what the back would break out.

Before marriage, we are love, sweetheart, is proud of his shoulder on the princess, heart on the sweet treasure. We say that one, they dare not say 2; we say that the east that they are not afraid to west. But after the marriage, they donned the yellow robes, the emancipated serfs to sing and become a general! Sisters sisters, let us take a closer look around the man, why Bianliao Lian?

When in love, her husband in every possible way for me tender, offer all kinds of pet is really a bit afraid of including it in your mouth, and on their heads and fell the taste of fear. Almost every day he was able to give me a little surprise, not give me a Xiaopodupi SMS, that is, bought me a small gift.

I remember most clearly is the first time he drove me to his parents home, the road is not far away, an hour's drive, but there are a half-hour Shashi Lu, compare bumps, when the back seat and his brother and younger brother and sister, but I say the storm, and he should prefer to rear the younger brother of brothers and sisters pyramid, nor should my seat recline, let me lie down to sleep. And his love was for two years, we really princess and servant relationship. Let me cite one simple example, say that man; knees with gold, could be that, I saw that he secretly saved him and his former girlfriend's photo, crazy-like anger, vowed to left him, finally, he had kneeling in front of me, asked me to forgive. Even I myself have felt his own temper soaring, slight not ring true on the ignition, but also noisy and begging, he blindly obey me, and made me more and more self-willed.

However, married life is earth-shaking changes have taken place, her husband re-energized and no longer had my toe. This feeling began in the second week after the marriage. Wolia packed their bags and went to Shenzhen travel. I thought this would be a happy honeymoon trip, but, I think he go against me everywhere. The first is along the way, he even asked me to join him in luggage, although only a packet of my own, I am still very happy, he helped me were previously Bag, and when I mentioned things? But he repeatedly told me, you have to understand, I am your husband, not your slave, you have to exhaust me, and who take care of you? My wronged ah, crying Naozhao say no go, could be the aircraft ranging from people, had no choice but to bring my packet, sobbed behind him followed.

There are more fat husband, love to sleep, had not previously felt to work together to go out on the sense out of trouble came in the evening returned to the hotel, I have not showered, he has been into the sleep. On several occasions he was called up and asked him to accompany me to see night, he ignored me, and vitally I also cried for several nights. Then he explained to me that he wanted to rest well during the day can have the energy to make proper arrangements for the road and take good care of my meals and recreational purposes. I admit that a week in Shenzhen, I've got nothing to parade over heart, where to go, what to eat and play what are his money to meet, and can not imagine how I would feel in order to sleep a while, he will bear to let I cried Ban Su. The changes in her husband after marriage, they wronged me both accidents, often feel they have been ignored, no longer favored, and Is this a woman from a girl into a wife, a must?

PS:

Love for men and slaves, in fact, is to accommodate a woman. Hearts to get girls to give up self, desperate to meet. Men who loved too much to accommodate girls also created a girl that feeling of dependence. After they married, once such a feeling of being slightly less generous, the girl complained, he will be very sensitive to stand up, and even shot in the dark: he is not starting a change of heart, do not love me? Meanwhile, the marriage is just a man's role to act as a couple, as long as two people on the trip pleasant, and does not have much responsibility to bear, in order to discuss girls favor, the men would be put away his reason, extremely sensitive to spoil a woman, or even what she said best. Marriage, men want to prop up a home, daily life to his wife's responsibility, therefore a heavy responsibility, shoulders heavy. Resulting in marriage, men have not much inclination to coax wife. At the same time as the man is in itself rational, marriage, his return to rationality in situ, when he was a rational analysis of right and wrong tone with his wife, the wife not help but think he is no longer docile.