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I was an only child, parents irascible character, which is very influential to my childhood, grow up, I am a bit introverted and reticent, and even feel lonely, I am quietly determined, my future life must not repeat the same mistakes.

Adult parents retired, I am at home provoked a beam. After being introduced, I know now wife. She was already in the community they work hard, to live more than I thought, social experience than I am wide. Married in 2067, we have the first very good relationship, a chat you can chat 12 hours, but the last two years, she always publicly reprove me.

I opened a teahouse. On one occasion, a customer to drink tea, but he felt that TV does not look good, they do not want to make tea. I let him pay, but the other refused, the wife and the other noisy up. However, I stand aside, no noisy customers.

Indifferent to his wife to see me do not stand up and help her argument, in front of many people's face, began to reprove me. She shouted at me: "I do not reprove you, not a means to bully you, yells at you, you will not even dare to open cavity." I think that the business should be based and for expensive, but she believed that a man on the standing in a line should be, and his wife.

On another occasion, a customer and my father started to argue, leaving ferocious. The man to speak with a curse word, my father was non-compliance, they pushed him, and two people pulling it in such a small place. My father call me hands-on, I think there is no big thing well, it did not move standing, I think certainly not the customers hands.

His wife began to reproach me, saying that I do not help them deal jointly with that person, and that I am weak, and that I is not a man. This is for any people, all can not stand, are a very Shang Zizun thing. The person next to me said she was seen very flat.
I was Jiugei father said it was your own hands first, to push others, who first hands-on, whoever does not. Unfortunately, the wife does not think so.

The most powerful one is that she took something hit me, I had to fight back, she was a knife threatened me, saying that as long as I close, I would Nadao Kan. I have others that she was too hurt my self-esteem, and I very depressed.

The evening of April 8, because the unit dinner, I had 11 points to go home, and she is still with the house across the street neighbor's house a cards. But she was already pregnant for more than seven months, part of labor status. I think she's definitely hungry, give her back to Dai Ledian barbecue. I also told her that was already very late resort to for a while, come back early. I will go back to rest. A result, three or four o'clock, I woke up and found her not to come back. I called her, and she is a look at my phone, they hung up. A separation of more than 10 minutes, seeing that she has not come back, I gave her call, she did not take. Separated for half an hour, I resort to the past, she has been shut down.

I cried from the window across the street had several more, and she also told me once a roar, and she said she knew. Separated for a while, not seen moving, where I fall asleep, but also up and say her home. She asked me trouble Sha Zi, the tone sounds very upset. I am also furious. Next to the estimates by our The couple burst of frustration, no more thoughts continue fighting.
4 points before, she returned, the door energetically open, and entered the room arbitrary rejection thing. I began to reprove the ... ... I am depressed, I was well-intentioned.

She reprove I have become a commonplace, it is really hurt my feelings, I even have some doubts as marriage, the heart is difficult to bear. I have been thinking about how to deal with these things, but there is no answer.

Quarreled before I talked with her all, but things later, like her would reprove me. The past two days, I did not reason her, she did not take the initiative to find me. She never told me why should we reprove me, why make a man so wounded self-esteem thing, Perhaps she does not think that is called chatter.

Few days, I sleep well, my day a little later lost confidence go on like this, really be a divorce. This time, I do not want to compromise, otherwise I would feel very inferior. The child will be born, I do not know will bring good luck to our family?
If the account for reasons, I am not afraid of
Reporter: Do you own assessment that he is not very weak?

Gao Bing: Maybe there may be this point. But I do not stand firm stand to look at reasonable and justified I afraid, how easily, even out of the big things, like the person has died, and my heart will not panic, absolutely realistic, because the bulk will not be borne by me. I do not provoke who first, if the other party no reason to bully me, I will your life. But if indeed my responsibility, I would certainly not speak up.
Reporter: your father's temper, up to now such a hot-tempered, why are you so docile?
Gao Bing: I can not tell, probably parents often quarrel, so I do not like the bar arguing over that issue.
Reporter: divorce, true to such a serious problem it?

Gao Bing: I have not told her Yueqi Guo, I just said to my father. My father said, and her marriage is my choice, and advised me not away from. My family is still very responsible, but I really hard to balance. If divorced, and certainly my heart is bad enough to continue, I do not know what the back would break out.

would like to know, her boyfriend really love her do:

His work is very serious, reluctant to take up work in time with me, I was the only with him. Others, is very stable, it seems very honest, giving the impression "will never be outside fucks people." We recognize that in before he did unofficially crowned with a person occurred in the relationship. He said it was without any feelings of, like, like shaking hands. Of course, I listened to is still very sad, how can he say that? He told me not to be jealous, saying that for her not worth it.

He had had a relationship with a woman, he almost said to me. I did not ask, I did not want to know this matter, I would never do not know, but he comes to us after all to tell me. But with me later, he said, I'm sorry I have not done the things that can be attested to his family, (because he was busy every day, no time to go, and spend money, I think he could not bear to spend money to go.)

There are with us, he just sent me a table, not to buy their own, and was his friend's company to do. I bought him clothes, he said told me not to waste the time I have bought, and that he would call me on my say here, I was very angry, say not so, I got it go threw garbage basket . Then I get passed on the counter a few days but he did not take it home, adding that what is sometimes inconvenient to bring home. My heart was really bleeding.

I had not the boys would use the money, because I do not want to use, I do not want to owe too much. But he does not send me festive gifts before Christmas, I told him I would like to gift, life for the first time open to the people to be a gift, he joked not ready, but he later bought a cell phone in advance, goes home, he family members to play what, he does not to play with it vitally He has even had a family quarrel, I do not know in advance we later learned was also a small bit touched, but in the end did not receive any gift, because it is something wrong with cell phone , and so they lose money selling someone else! After the buy, he said to me, I feared he was pained money, so we do not have any, and (because he was a small gas). Besides, I pay enough to buy these things, and they still own money to buy better.

There were books I bought when he bought me, I did not buy what's the use, and do not intend to buy it, because it usually is with the company, the way I said one simple sentence you sent me Yeah, but he said that buy second-hand, I do not like to use second-hand, so I did not say anything to him, and later made my own one person to pay the city bought a computer books, did not tell him to go, I fear that some things difficult for him.

Sometimes I wanted to break up angry and did not want any attention to him, but he is wholly inappropriate as I said, still with my connection as in the past, but I do not care. If I want to say to break up, he always told me to go to the bright side to everything.

Right from the exchanges up to now he has only had two days time to accompany me pumped to play, but also a lot of people we play, other times he would want to do business, there are counters that they have to look at what to say can not get away. In fact, they have two people together, and the other is his sister, if we take the time, it must be smoked. His sister had been working together for four months previously, he said, and so he was familiar with the sister can take some time to come out to accompany me, but now are so long, and have never had, even my birthday that day he did not. Although there may be busy working, when I played a lot of calls, I was the signal is not good, did not get through, I see that message, because the anger has not returned phone calls to him, then and now we have not seen the face, I do not pick him up call, but refused to take the set. But because the matter shows that talking on the Internet once or twice, he just said that he is not good, will slowly change, and will gradually become in my mind of that one.

He always said his sister to a man busy, but because it is now business is better. Needed everywhere getting goods, look for goods. Actually, I should sympathize with him, and may be psychological or not the taste, it will still angry. Because I feel that any one man is not like his girlfriend. I do not know that he has no love for me in the end?

do not know to continue or give up?

feminine devotion proved their innocence

that she was born in fortunate, or I think too much

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Xiaoqing Female 23 years old accounting
Qiang Male 33 years old company clerk
Xiaoqing said that -
Let me family incident into a Bad Girl

Now I am in love with her boyfriend Wei Qiang, and he loves me. Maybe I will not tell him everything in the past, we should now be very happy, but said that out of all could not be recovered, his mind to cast a shadow, this shadow has been shrouded in expanding our love, and I really do not know how to do ! Well, talk about this matter, you must first explain my history.

In my father and mother divorced when two years of age. For a long time I thought it was father's fault, it has been a great prejudice against him. In fact, this is also the result of provocation mother, my mother often said that it is the parents do not want us, and with another woman went to his home.

Primary six I was together with her mother off, In fact, they divorced when I was sentenced to a father, but a child of my mother, the non-Yao Gen. In fact, both father and mother wanted me. There was a time my mother will not let me see my father, I listen to her, there are literally not seen his father for two years. Later, my father is really like me, went to the school secretly look at me. Even so I did not care for him, because I hate my father destroyed the family.

Two days of the second term of the day, I and my uncle to play with the kids. She suddenly asked me: Do you know why you did not father? I said that Mom should not a father, his bad! Uncle of the child said, is not the case, your father's right, your mother and her boss a good place, we can make your home broken. At that time I was stunned silence: my mother? That love my people?

I do not believe this fact, ran back to ask my mom, and she actually beat me to dinner, said only that she is dead and so would tell me the truth. Then I Paoqu Wen my grandmother, things are indeed children of my uncle stated.

Suddenly, I felt so bad in this world can not believe that I began to revenge my mother. I am letting myself into a bad child, often with other students with truancy, fighting, has also learned to smoke, drink, every day Paowang Ba, and the community with a small bully. I hurt all the love my people's hearts, including my favorite grandmother. Mama do nothing for me, because I do not looked down on by her.
with us five years, he never touched me

Later, I met a Canton boy in the Internet, we are talking about very speculative, he was very cordial and considerate. I told him things in life, after every day, and enlighten me, comforted me, and then he became my first love object.

He told me really well, like a messenger sent by God. Than me how old he was when he had to work, but also a very good work, may be in order to take care of me, let me learn, he specially came from Guangdong, Wuhan in Wuhan found a dirty, tired, and a living wage is not high.

Look at me making progress, every day, and told me to study well and often to persuade me so that I do not hate my mother, do not always live with hate. On one occasion say that I am tired, I find the community of friends to beat him up. Alas, I was really mixed with ah! But he not only did not blame me, but also continue to be nice. He Shangyitianban tired, but regardless of wind or rain, as long as my previous study up, he would give me good food to school. He said that things outside of MSG too much, eat a lot of the body no good.

Under his encouragement, I gradually became mature and see things a different angle, and was later admitted to high school, and then went to college.

He and I talked about five years and can say that he was most disappointed when I appeared in my side, but also the most proud of in my time he left.

To tell the truth, he really is my life, would like to thank people. Speaking not afraid of you laugh, and now society is so open, men and women together, maybe two weeks would be the occurrence of such relations, but he was 5 years I have not touched. Later on, or in the future he and I have that layer of the relationship between engagement.
my first love story all told him

You must ask such good people, why then let him leave? In fact, we should be able together, and if the normal development may now we are married. But he knows that I do not really love him, it is very grateful to him. He did not want I'll regret it, so even if we engaged, he decided to leave me.

I really think that it is difficult to find such a selfless person. We have separated three years, but he failed to return home, remained in Wuhan, only to leave me near point; he has not been talk about a girlfriend, because his heart has always been I am the only one person.

He did everything for me, I have guilt, more grateful, but not to reward him with love. Because it is demand that can not love this thing, I would like to thank and, if only because with him, for he does not always fair.

3 years later, I met a real love. Met him, I know what they want in place, we know what is love. He was 10 years older than me, it would be considerate. Perhaps, and my family background, I liked that much bigger than my boys.

I am a heavy feeling of people, once loved will own safety, even to pay their own lives. It is all too loved him, and I fudge, and my first love story of all to tell him. In fact, I, and he said they just do not want their own secret, I hope the two people together, there is no suspicion, but my idea is too simple.

My favorite people do not understand me. He said that I always mentioned before, so that his heart had a shadow. In peacetime, he still endured, but each to drink, the mood becomes bad, strange, I told him I had to do. Do I wrong? I should have to hide him do?
I really love him well, did not want to ruin our love, I hope he will understand me!
Qiang said that -
She said I'll never forget the scenes can not afford to the

She said that is true, but she did not say completely. Gang and her contacts did not take long, as long as we are together, her mouth hung on all day long her former boyfriend. For example, I and her Jianghan Road shopping, she would say: I and the first time he was also here to meet. Eat as well, I order a month tofu, she would say her previous boyfriend, the best would do this dish, in short, what should mention him, and if I do not interrupt, she can always go on.

Later I went to what extent ah, we have stable relationships, with intimacy, when could she be with her and former boyfriend speak out all the ramifications of intimacy. Time, place and circumstances, such as motion pictures, like to put it vivid. In addition, she will also own and the one-night stand is also a netizen, and I said.

She said she loved me and I have no reservations should be right, thank God Yes, I indeed a hope that she had not told me anything. Although I loved her, but a close your eyes, she said those things to life to emerge on the corner. You say who is who on this matter would be negligible? Told me to forget those things, it is estimated a lifetime can not do!

attention to my neighbor's college students

11 years, always thought that light forces will disappear forever in my memory, and do not want a few days ago he was suddenly hit my dream. Wake up and saw her husband sleeping around, I laughed, because her husband's love is real, but the military is my light more than 10 years ago a distant dream, some wonderful memories of first love ... ...

11 years ago, I was working long, since the home is not in Ningbo city, in order to facilitate the work, I would rent in the urban areas had a bungalow. Clearly remembers the summer of that year, an evening, I returned home from the unit to work overtime to see the original next to empty the three boys moved into the rented room. Passing in front of them, which has always been a tall boy looked at me, until I can still feel behind closed his eyes. A few days later, I know that they are senior students, that tall boy called light-jun.

Because the university about to graduate, learning is not tight, a few boys, most of the time have to stay in rented room, and I am in poor health during that time also took a long vacation to the units of rest at home. The same is renting an apartment, but also neighbors, peers, but also because the original light of my concern about the military, chat more times, and play opportunities, and we love are unconsciously generated. Guang-jun said that he was love at first sight for me, but I told him is counting Rijiushengqing.

In mid-July of that year, the light-Jun graduated from university, he said the county would like to return home to find work. It gives me out of a sort of a small problem, if I follow him, it means giving up the jobs available. Of course, this is not the most important, I am more worried about their age, because I am two years older than the light forces, I fear he lived in the countryside, parents would not agree. I asked the Light army, in case you do not agree with parents how to do? He Xiangyemeixiang decisively that he things themselves.
His firm gave me a great deal of courage, so I was determined, and with him.
father actually "Incognito Travel"

With the light army back to his old home town, we rented a suite son, began living in sin. A few days later, I know that we had from the residence of his sister's house close, but he never ever mentioned going to take me to his sister, his family never knew of my existence. Aware of these later, my mind was very unhappy, I feel we are all
To the last, and he should let his family know that I earlier, I am in their home should have a particular sub.

But not happy return is not happy, I did not trouble him, because we were all looking for a job, I think so we are all stable, he will certainly brought their parents.

Blink of an eye to the end of September, when I have found a copy shop assistant, we store sales for the elderly to use the products. In mid-November of that year, gradually turns cold days, and I bought some products from the unit to light the military to take home to their parents. Until then, he was referred to my parents. When the light came back told me that the military did not raise objection to the parents, I hung a heart finally put down.

A few days later, I was at work, a country with large bags pathi boss walked into our store. He was simply asked me a few problems related to commodities, but is neither buying nor meant to leave. By experience, I know he would certainly not buy things, but to see him so great age, he looked for a stool for him to sit down to rest. Uncle sat more than 10 minutes or so, suddenly asked: "You can go home at noon to eat it?" I've been asked a puzzled, but still very politely say that they break at noon time is short, no time to cook. Not imagine that he added: "That night I went to your house for dinner." Then I suddenly remembered my father with light forces and this boss Peter almost, I guess this person is probably the light Army Dad.

Boss Peter was gone, I'll light the military call to confirm a result, I guess. Army dad came to our house the evening light dinner, told us, "You like being home to the future, I'll help you."
me and her mother's knees for a long time

I thought I was and light forces do not have the suspense, so light military father was gone, I am more and more that they are light on the role of the military girlfriend has been feeling, but can not think of a pain is quietly hit me .

One day, as to the guests, ate rice was already very late, so tired and I did not pack light forces will go to bed in the living room table. Surprisingly, the next morning my mother and sister suddenly light-jun knock the door of my house. Light Army and her mother spoke, I dressed in the bedroom, when I heard his mother said: "It still seems like the family?" And then is to pack up chopsticks voice. I heard the light forces, said: "Do not you, I will clean up." He was angry mother said: "Do all you can do for you home? You are originally larger than themselves to find a girl I do not agree, your dad is also say, OK, never thought she would not even do housework. "I go out dressed as soon as a result, how his mother did not reason I Shuaimen away. A few minutes later the phone rang light forces, he was told his mother went to his sister's home. Light Army told me to come back the afternoon, my mother did not agree with our contacts to see if I am sad, he comforted me not to it personally. At that time I do not know, in fact, light forces have promised Mom and I broke up.

Once I travel, come back to the light the military called him pick me, and he said emergency can not come, I did not think about it its a taxi home.

Gang Daojia to his mother to make money, Guang-jun nervously said to me: "Quick hide in the balcony." I asked why, he said: "Do not ask, and quickly hide." After that I heard him on the balcony mother and sister's voice. Light Army Mom let him open the door and threatened if he did not open, she opened the door hit jump from the balcony. Light Army helpless opened the door and light in my mother Simuxiangdui army of that moment, she suddenly kneeling in front of me and says loudly: "I do not like your daughter to do my house, with you, my family will not be peace." This when I know, the light forces said to his mother lied, I have a business trip to the mother in order to prove that he broke up, my everything closed up, I came back he did not pick me to put away my things back.
is now happy, so I would not hate him

We always thought that the resistance to light from my Army great older than this day, I learned that I was too light military mom grew up in single-parent families, and found my fate was bad, it will affect their family's fortune. I hope that his mother gave me some time, his mother made me the same day leave immediately. Our mutual kneeling for a long time, the light troops in the side but kept silent, his sister also told me the last down the Zhu Keling.

January 8, 1999, I returned to the original rental house in Ningbo, the light military contact me occasionally, but only for phone calls about. This contact intermittently for two years, I told myself as long as the light forces did not find a girlfriend, we will certainly have a chance to. To entertain the illusion that my mobile phone number had never changed the hope that light, when the military wants to contact me at any time find.

In February 2002, I also received a light military phone because he was not familiar Ningbo, to what I have learned an address. I asked him if he flies all right, he said that by the end of 2001 he was married. Putting down the telephone, I was very sad, I know that our love will always be in the past.
In 2004, I married this year, I have 32 years of age.

Blink of an eye 10 years have passed, look at their marriage and the family, for so many years has been very stable, very warm, I feel very satisfied, very happy. And I suddenly discovered that when light military to die to live in love, die to live in hatred, after they get married, have gradually become weak, and occasionally thought, it would only think that it is young age a color, whether it is too bright Or dark, all my life experience, which enriched my life during the years of the contents of that section.

Mother, passing over, everything seems back to calm. But my heart can not calm down, you know why? Every day I live in fear of them every day off was not very happy, I seem to have become no longer be me. Not because of anything else, just because you are.

From our interaction, you started to Xunsimihuo barrier in our midst! I did not how you like, and more vicious the language did not say anything to you. But you have time and time again to say something vicious language to hurt me, but to her husband, to our six years of very difficult feelings, I remained silent. I thought my silence in exchange for your understanding, but did not. Became even more intensified the stirring of your co.

Because the baby's arrival, we have to get married, her husband know that there are several babies before unfortunate to paradise, the doctor said that if this baby will never have, I may have missed the opportunity to be a mother, and
I'm afraid. I love kids, I want to be my mother. I do not want even to be a mother's rights are also denied. Her husband kneeling in front of you old couple ask you to let us get married, you were so determined, so I can not forget. "The child destroyed, is not you do not know anything about it. To speak, can not have children off us anything. Their own cheap!" I did not cry, because I know that my tears can not speak for anything, also played What role can not! Her husband finally said, if you have not let us get married, then had to leave our own home had been in his own way. Are you afraid to leave his husband Lao Shu company, fear not the company's shares, so you do not have to resort to compromise.

I thought the child's birth allows you to change our thinking, make you better for us, but it did not expect to move you from the distant Henan Daqing to look at us, our every move you from one aspect he gave. But never look at a child, my baby one year old, and not through the grandmother's clothes. I do not mind, I do not fight. But the mother, where I do wrong, why children are so big you Sanfanliangci requirements husband and I divorced, let's divorce What do you mean? You can get in return? You have daughters, and ask ourselves, if your own daughter found a mother like you father, you can stand it that when the mother's do? You will have the heart to let his daughter by such sins?

I was always patient, always silent. Not because of anything else, because I am afraid, I was afraid of divorce, fear of my baby is not a complete family, newspapers, television networks, overwhelming juvenile delinquency, all divorced family, I do not want it, I want my baby happy to grow, and. The husband, is my own family, I love him ?!

Festive time, her husband's grandfather called us and told us that he has criticized me for elderly people, and give them a lot of talk about a lot, let them know that daughter-in is not easy to do others, say that you also have daughters. Asked her if she hoped that her mother did not want their daughters to persuade them to divorce. You did not speak, I do not know that you still hear the silent resistance of the ears.

We all returned to Daqing, and one was still very quiet until now, I am really afraid to face you. Even you are afraid to face the son of you.

Mother. Father, I beg you. Do this for us please? Do not do this alright? We are really tired, we want a happy life, like happiness that we were the lead an easy life, I will not speak on behalf of your granddaughter, I beg you, do not let her parents divorced, and she needed a complete family, the need father and mother's love. Grandparents also need to love, I surrendered. Dad, Mom, we have married, your son is no longer possible to find a car with room what a woman, and you would do in their attempts to divorce.