Why men do not love a woman marry?

Posted November 5th, 2010 by admin and filed in Men and women

Love you in. This may be romantic, sweet, exciting, maybe you have to bring frivolous, depression, pain, regardless of the final result is not as you wish, in short, it left too much of your content too rich and profound enough you use a lifetime time to remember, to speculate. It is this perhaps a little "emotional lethality" of reason, love a woman has experienced all the emotional world of adult men to issue such a declaration: love women do not marry a wife.

The men's comments: love the woman, makes you a lifetime, but she was not on the suitable wife. She is, you walk up to a section of a prelude to the marriage hall bar. Does not love a woman marry, they have enough reason.

unmarried men and the reasons for a: to give up that she is only a beautiful emotion.

Love a woman, the lifetime of the most beautiful experience, because OK so trivial trivial. Romantic famished stomach, and love will eventually want to stitch, rice and salt, pot spoon hitting the pot along the polished off the first Guanghua, romantic time of the marriage up to become a lace and embellishment. When the vision of disillusionment, the ideal fragrance filled the air from falling on the ground, you eventually can not bear to face your first love a woman. This time, you would prefer to opt out.

unmarried men, two reasons: first love a woman, but I love to learn exercises.

Instability in future life so that I can only love as a kind of emotional sustenance I was young. I love and I love women's simple, but does not envisage a result of the future.
love a woman a number of features:
First love a woman seemingly gentle, in fact, is very tough and sometimes cunning.
First love a woman is too romantic, too demanding to you, was so tired.
Love too much love a woman like a baby, so that the small nature of children and always away from home.
First love a woman there are too many reasons to whine, so you are both excited and worried.
First love a woman likes to test you, to see if your attitude is serious.
Saibian hung a woman's tears of love when you Guessing the total mind.
First love a woman to love when the game, you have to have a good mental stamina to go play with her.
Women do not understand love treasure and clearly Aisha nerves of a person to say the least cruel leave you alone, sad.
First love a woman not smart enough that are often stubborn and restrained as the reasons for regret.
First Love Women tend to somehow leave you feeling uncertain rain or shine.

reasons for a married man: only through love will marry a woman easily derail.

Women love a clean slate, which allows you to smear the colors may be only because you met her before anyone else. The biggest advantage of first love are her first time, but this reason is too simple, too emotional to stand the long course of years of wind and rain. Grass is always greener is not a man's patent, first love, once a woman hit a reef of secondary emotions, she will not boldly before, everything regardless.

two married men reasons: love of a woman demanding perfection, insist romantic, infatuated with a number of illusory fragile things.

First love is always a woman to cover up their shortcomings. Love of a woman worried that you can not just be the perfect side show, and love the women do not know love, do not understand the real defect.

three reasons for married men: a man's life refuse to love a woman in real life.
Mature woman would first cooking up their lives, in turn, help me, so I will be easier.

The final words of a man: married to a mature rational woman wife bar, in the precarious when the boat in the marriage, the two can be more warmth and understanding to think nestle ... ...

Source - When I was alone when it comes to holding your

Posted October 16th, 2010 by admin and filed in Human Subway

I thought I should be the most lonely people
We have forgotten the warm side pair of eyes
No matter how lonely, what a scrap
As long as you stay with me

I think that he might be the most lonely people
Ignore the mind share of beautiful tenderness
No matter how lonely are hardly helpless
Around with your feet

When I was alone when it comes to holding your
How sweet was that the
When I was lonely when it comes to thinking about you
How fortunate that the

When I was so lonely when you are holding
Life does not give up
When I was lonely, so when thinking of you
Only life you treasure

I thought I should be the most lonely people
We have forgotten the warm side pair of eyes
No matter how lonely, what a scrap
As long as you stay with me

I thought

The other half of what a woman would accept the derail?

Posted January 29th, 2010 by admin and filed in Men and women

What kind of woman would have derailed a partner "turn a blind eye"?

Experts: There are very few women will not be derailed because of a partner and painful, or the extent of pain is very light. Because of their high degree of self-satisfied about, and they are usually dominant in the core of the work. Their inner balance, firm, mature, good to restrain myself, not aggressive. Otherwise, one has been shattered plates could escalate into a "family war." They are also adept at managing their own negative emotions (such as constantly ask themselves, "what point in the end she was stronger than me?" "Is not my ugly too well boring?")

Because of their self-awareness good, so they feel, even if the betrayal was a lover, but the achievements in other areas is enough to prove their excellence, such as they are a good mother, good wife in the eyes of the outside world, good staff - these are sufficient to cushion the blow had been betrayed. In this particularly vulnerable time, if they realize that in fact, we are still in the eyes of other men attractive if they can hold on.

If she is paying more attention to "the senses of love" rather than "the spirit of love" is not any more receptive to your partner unfaithful?

Experts: There is a derailment of a man often said to me: "I would never fart in front of my lover." Derailed a partner who knows, but there is no quarreling women were very clear, both men and women, it is necessary to maintain long-term partner's loyalty is how difficult a thing ... ...

For them, a man with a lover derailment is like writing a poem, but he was, and she wrote a whole novel. So many of the chapters are long-term ramifications of living together in written in. They feel that men and lovers to share beds but Bale. That is why they think that men still love ourselves a bit more.
acceptance of a woman right off the rails do with the age-related?

Experts :25-35-year-old woman has been betrayed often adopt a "turning a blind eye" attitude, because they do not want to lose such a close relationship has just been established. 40-50 year-old woman has been learned that could derail the other half back "into the control", should come from a third party "challenge", for example, they will try to re-conquer the other half of the heart.

Sometimes infidelity is similar to electric shock therapy, will play the role of emotional catharsis. Betrayal of the woman but to rekindle the enthusiasm of partners, this situation is common. However, for some women, this renewed enthusiasm is through a depression in the performance of indulgence: the pursuit of sensual pleasure from the orgasm to get psychological comfort, like a camel suffering from obsessive-compulsive disorder repeated masturbation, alcoholism ... ... a woman over 50 it is difficult to bear the blow partner derailed because they love their own possibilities - such as attractive to men - has declined.

derailed those who receive the women and willing partner, "to remain in the dark," sometimes for several years, between lovers, do have in common?

Experts: Do not be a third party said she was willing to just "stay in the dark" on the relaxed vigilance, so that the rationalization of their presence. Some women are always happy to make a U.S. appearance, content partner for its occasional warmth. These women usually have a "fear of being abandoned," the psychological characteristics, they are used to the lack of being loved, a bit like a child growing up in the shelters, they are very afraid of breaking up, and can not take the initiative to end a relationship, even if this feeling so that she was disappointed in, disrupt or even destroy her life.

Some women can not and another man "live" because they are the ideal relations between the sexes, and hope that love is not other-worldly air, caring for each other there is the eternal appeal of the beginning of everything is love, so pure and unadulterated. And stable relationship of partner, an affair between sustainable development is difficult to go up to just marking time, after all, Valentine also can not live without rice and salt. Of course, be able to separate a considerable period of time and others remain "physical relationship" a lot of people, but once the relationship began to involve refuse to buy bread, dry clothes, would be finished.

If you are not married to 26-year-old

Posted September 18th, 2009 by admin and filed in Men and women

1, original capital balance of your love, do not Jianren Jiu Ai
2, working hard point does not matter, worn out is better than starving to death, at least for a clear conscience
3, reserve funds and effort, parental age has been high, to ensure that their hospice
4, everything gains and losses do not mind too much, because you are the remainder of his youth not much fun most important
5, smoking and of course, will affect their health, and if smoking cessation and the inverted-induced heart disorders that cause even greater losses
6, do the right amount of exercise, but other than sex

7, no, if necessary, no need to look at some South Korean idol drama like the movie, because we are not children of the

8, instead of a star as the idol on the ground, such as Article VII

9, not to play tricks child temperament and always must leave for work, because you need the job, rather than the job requires you to

10, in front of strangers must be stupid pretending to look like a beggar may have unusual experiences, deserves our respect

11, even if you normally only used sleeve Cengceng mouth after a meal, but also put their own bed and clean up, nothing more than themselves to give you a warm bed

12, if you have friends to borrow money, do not worry you tell him how difficult the economy, first expressed concern that he is not what happened, even if it is a symbolic
13, friends, marriage is a happy piece thing, no need to go home quietly after the tragedy of its own
14, or at least more like an art, or else your life will not pursue

15, must be tempered cold capacity, do not know if one day you may need to icy weather to wear a thin suit or an evening to attend a banquet
16, if your girlfriend suddenly put in her economic capacity other than jewelry, please consciously leave her

17, and an opposite sex "friend" a good job of rooms later, when the other side lying in bed waiting for you to undress, you should pick up the suit jacket or bag, to her / him good night, and then whistling, humming ballad out of the room, as anti-sense each other's noble personality of your contempt.
18, if you are not anxious to have children, personal happiness is more important than the flesh, do not go to bed easily with others

19, do not curse those who like Dali, or fond of strangers who hold stereotypes of people, they did not quality, not fit to share with you
20, self-expansion is just a temporary tool for fun, and my heart to know that their Laodi and Traumatology

21, exaggerated smile if you like, not a plot that is something to pursue, we must know human nature is ugly, and they can not tolerate the jealousy and boast you, do not be taken seriously

22, if your free time too much, you can try writing a novel, and then Na Quji friends to see, they do not look at it if you give him money

23, more than learning anything, at any time believe that they still very young, even if it is 40 years of age, must pretend loaded young

24, if you are a man, but cause no improvement, please do not fall in love not to get married, realistic, to first work hard bar.

25, ready to get married friends should pay attention to, and the same side of the pillow to sleep in your married another person, he / she is no longer the passers-by, but your relatives, you first need to consider is not love and not love , but can not be tolerated

26, credit card debt is also on a timely manner which will directly affect your future lending, according to exhaust
27, there must be good, even if just want to learn how to do, tomato scrambled eggs
28, no need to love before marriage was a very tough battle, if one day she / he told people to go, and you both life and wealth

29, when the love is not too often, would you please say it blessing, not to hate it because it was both loved and missed two people were responsible, but no copies destined Bale

30, Do not sorrow hanging in the mouth, each person has their own story. Live not to miss yesterday, but to wait for hope, and let everyone see you strong.

31, not to mention your favorite who still have a long life, no one can predict tomorrow. Perhaps your love is still waiting for you Xiayi Miao

32, that will not break up when the noise. After all, the two together for so long, am saddened that he will be. But he is quite sensible, not want to restrict your or his future. Good terms, after, or a friend. Everyone has their own helplessness

33, life would meet four kinds of people: their own, do you have favorite people, favorite you have to people, and you get people to spend their lives, met the same person, pay attention, and really have to cherish them, you're very lucky guy

34, ibid, otherwise, please do not hurt, sadness, you are passing only encountered one say that the world so much, who met you, and you know who has met

35, knows the sea will not dry, stone is not bad, ground will not be old, days will not be shortage; Even if it will also not live at that time. Promised, when they should be careful not to promise the promise can be achieved, it is best committed to the impossible, anyway can not be done casually, does not matter
36, please remember: "it is impossible to achieve the promise of the most touching"
, In love, the say one thing and doing another; talking about people do not believe that people do not believe that listening to

37, when we have to love their parents obstruction was encountered, it should lay down their heat, cold acceptance have to think about, the parents love we have, there is only one parent, while the friend was a lot of

38, ibid, we should not have to give up their parents, and then run away, so the idea was really too naive, and comrades to remember sentence: motherly love, fatherly, most great, they will always be our favorite, the Viva!

So easy to break up between couples to spend money

Posted March 15th, 2009 by admin and filed in Men and women

Everyone says, the real love of the people do not afterwards, may be daily lives, there are several pairs of couples can really chic? Romantic is to use money as a cushion. The face of money, how do we and the other half "equanimity" mean?

between couples spend so easy to break up

From couples to spend money so easily parted
wrong one: never talk about

Why is this wrong? Once the period spent in love, couples will inevitably be faced with practical problems, when they began to settle the account of the mind. If one party to take the initiative to pay the bill often forget the other party, or to remind him, or suffer in silence, but in the end there will be an outbreak of the day is inevitable quarrel.

The best solution: trouble everyday life in terms of money before the problems began to talk about it explicitly clear how to pay the expenses of the two. In order to avoid side think they are paying the price further information, two to establish a joint account, with this account of the money to pay expenses.
Error 2: income different, but the implementation of AA system

Why is this wrong? Because even the AA system, the principles of fairness, but it increasingly difficult to be borne by the party should be reduced. The result is accumulated resentment in their hearts.

The best solution: the income gap between the couple, the best solution is based on the proportion of income to determine the proportion of to-day expenses, so that everyone can save some money, buy things they like, but also there is no grudge land to the other side to buy gifts. No doubt, this is the most equitable principles.

Error 3: A person who is responsible is also the mortgage, another person, the burden of daily expenses

Why is this wrong? No two people from the economic participation of major investment decisions will certainly bring about the future regret. Does not participate in further mortgages side will feel the house is not their own, this kind of sentiment on the couple it was a very serious time bomb.

The best solution: people under 30 years of age issues in the joint venture often hesitating because they are for their future is uncertain. But psychologists say that if two people want to invest, the house is the best choice: in a house of their respective owners the right to live together can bring feelings of spiritual equality.
error 4: A person who manages two people's money

Why is this wrong? Because of money management will become a right. Psychologists tell us that if a party in a loving relationship has absolute control over the right to continue to cause long-term relations between the two imbalances.

The best solution: women are more careful, better managers, they consider themselves among the majority of the financial situation of the family responsible. One of two people to manage money, why not? But the condition is respect each other's freedom, without comment, after all, everyone's values differ somewhat.
Error 5: A person who shall bear all the expenses

Why is this wrong? If long-term commitment to economic pressures alone will make the psychological side to become heavy, very happy, anxiety, irritable, the face of the other party's carefree feel unfair.

The best solution: money troubles should be shared by two people, even if your income is really much higher than the other. You can right the other side, said: "What is your opinion?" "Helped me to solve this problem together." A sense of participation in love is very important. Two people's common to find ways, not only to find better ways will find mental balance.