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66th words: the need for transit

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I did not think, the first turning point occurred in the Jiaqi body. Jia Qi, said: "Mike should be divorced." She said this, she was hand holding my arm, head and rely on my shoulder. Jia Qi always like to rely on me, like a mature big cat. I do not know what is it like my own, in short, is like a big cat smaller than the gadgets.

Jia Qi said: "Mike is a good man."

I still do not know if Mike is not good.

I always think of marriage, scattered in the sea fishing nets. It has a dense complex, but could not help but sharp and be able to endure heavy accumulation of Our Time. I would not put an end to a marriage be attributed to people or things outside of the marriage, but to say that for the third party will have a tendency to justify, so the phrase "flies do not bite the eggs do not sew," there is the useless. Made a fly over to a third party, which also defeated the number of worthy in marriage one or two sides of the.

As Jiaqi How far away from cross-border marriages, I do not know, I am only too clearly, she did a few days across the country.

Xu en told me: "Marriage and love are not directly linked." I suddenly. Was unwilling to face.

When the water becomes dirty, the air more and more dirty, love is also dirty. People are using various means to meet all kinds of greed, and even marriage, this road is also spared. Xu en implying that I, and Xu Jiaqi greed is not for Mike, but Mike can give her for the many. I hate to face this possibility, because I still believe in love, I believe that this invisible feeling with the invisible air, water or intangible kind of all-conquering strength, I believe this power will allow Jiaqi and Mike love cleanly .

I XU En said: "You have a suspicious mind, a gentleman's belly." Xu en smiled, but I shed tears. I miss Xu en, day and night to miss.

I only smile in life dedicated Huang You-Qing. Huang You-Qing asked me: "love beauty, you have sanitary napkins?" I Lengle Leng, asked: "Who is the use?" Huang You-Qing said: "I." He symbolically rubbed sweat from his brow. I gave him paper towels, and then said: "This is called tissue paper." I uphold the like, and must have the number of sanitary napkins wipe sweat it worthwhile? Huang also called the Green governing U disk Mobile disk. I like the word mobile dish, it always reminds me of UFO and extraterrestrial. Huang You-Qing also ask children to my voice, but he really is not the rotten wood carving. I taught him for three days, "morrow see", he said to me on the fourth day was "Ming see the child."

XU En-Qing Huang's wariness of unshaken. Once we talk about yellow then blue, he would say: "You are far away from him something." But I also blue and yellow is indeed between the mainland and Taiwan compatriots, the friendship between, I even forced his son called me "beautiful sister", I XU En said: "I and he was not one in the family hierarchy." I said: "I would like to, like a bridge between the frame in the mainland and Taiwan." XU En said: "Every day without a decent time, fucking want to hit you. "I Pie Piezui, thinking back to your child Daoshi deft ah, your back, my son I did not branded persimmons 2, you will never come back, what fierce fierce ah.

Xu en in Guangzhou and the manufacturer's representations was not successful, the parties to be drag compensation.

I XU En said: "Without you, I would have to have to scratch the wall of loneliness." XU En said: "Do not scratch the wall, and came back to Taiwan to see my parents the way."

Continue to: a woman two men, those things (67)

Love you in. This may be romantic, sweet, exciting, maybe you have to bring frivolous, depression, pain, regardless of the final result is not as you wish, in short, it left too much of your content too rich and profound enough you use a lifetime time to remember, to speculate. It is this perhaps a little "emotional lethality" of reason, love a woman has experienced all the emotional world of adult men to issue such a declaration: love women do not marry a wife.

The men's comments: love the woman, makes you a lifetime, but she was not on the suitable wife. She is, you walk up to a section of a prelude to the marriage hall bar. Does not love a woman marry, they have enough reason.

unmarried men and the reasons for a: to give up that she is only a beautiful emotion.

Love a woman, the lifetime of the most beautiful experience, because OK so trivial trivial. Romantic famished stomach, and love will eventually want to stitch, rice and salt, pot spoon hitting the pot along the polished off the first Guanghua, romantic time of the marriage up to become a lace and embellishment. When the vision of disillusionment, the ideal fragrance filled the air from falling on the ground, you eventually can not bear to face your first love a woman. This time, you would prefer to opt out.

unmarried men, two reasons: first love a woman, but I love to learn exercises.

Instability in future life so that I can only love as a kind of emotional sustenance I was young. I love and I love women's simple, but does not envisage a result of the future.
love a woman a number of features:
First love a woman seemingly gentle, in fact, is very tough and sometimes cunning.
First love a woman is too romantic, too demanding to you, was so tired.
Love too much love a woman like a baby, so that the small nature of children and always away from home.
First love a woman there are too many reasons to whine, so you are both excited and worried.
First love a woman likes to test you, to see if your attitude is serious.
Saibian hung a woman's tears of love when you Guessing the total mind.
First love a woman to love when the game, you have to have a good mental stamina to go play with her.
Women do not understand love treasure and clearly Aisha nerves of a person to say the least cruel leave you alone, sad.
First love a woman not smart enough that are often stubborn and restrained as the reasons for regret.
First Love Women tend to somehow leave you feeling uncertain rain or shine.

reasons for a married man: only through love will marry a woman easily derail.

Women love a clean slate, which allows you to smear the colors may be only because you met her before anyone else. The biggest advantage of first love are her first time, but this reason is too simple, too emotional to stand the long course of years of wind and rain. Grass is always greener is not a man's patent, first love, once a woman hit a reef of secondary emotions, she will not boldly before, everything regardless.

two married men reasons: love of a woman demanding perfection, insist romantic, infatuated with a number of illusory fragile things.

First love is always a woman to cover up their shortcomings. Love of a woman worried that you can not just be the perfect side show, and love the women do not know love, do not understand the real defect.

three reasons for married men: a man's life refuse to love a woman in real life.
Mature woman would first cooking up their lives, in turn, help me, so I will be easier.

The final words of a man: married to a mature rational woman wife bar, in the precarious when the boat in the marriage, the two can be more warmth and understanding to think nestle ... ...

Single woman's night, how many kinds you can imagine, they will be able to give you many possibilities. To put it plainly, they are with others and their different and they all lived the same day in different inside and outside the bar but a siege.

at night peeping Soul

cocoa, bank staff, disco collar dance, a monthly income of 8,000 yuan, currently residing in Beijing

Cocoa Panruoliangren day and night, or even a lot of not particularly good friend of mine, but do not know can be a little famous lead dancer. "A lot of people is such that, even to go disco dancing vent, and are still Yaogen most people behind." Coco said the time is their most HIGH Chong playing dance at the beginning of each day a few minutes, "the following people is watching you, everybody jumped up and slowly, as if he was a carnival queen production. "dance cocoa spoke collar work, full of pride.

Cocoa wearing business wear during the day, sitting in the bank "is not their money out to go is to money, come." Doing a number of money movements, she was cute like a child. Including myself, she felt the day that you do not see very well be able to disguise her face, skeptical of human nature. "All into the night, there is no time to prepare for are not the same, especially dressed in business wear on the dance floor and forget those who are more Mensao type of guy."

Coco likes to observe life in such a way. For her, the night is not ambiguous, and even more thorough than during the day, so she did not mind being misunderstood, on the lead dancer in all sorts of bad habits, in the cocoa but with no traces of 1:00, which is the reason why the parents respect her fun reasons for this point. On one occasion, the mother of cocoa into the dance, it taught in the university life books, like to listen to a symphony of the elderly at that moment taken aback by this new world. "It's very exciting, you suddenly find that there is another world around you." Or the day and night in the world is really different, and cocoa because of dissatisfaction with her boyfriend eventually left the lead dancer to do her. Cocoa some regret, but also frankly. "I can not because people give up my own happiness. Like when the night has arrived, and no matter how well camouflaged the soul had to face the busy or lonely. Only make yourself happy before someone else happy." Perhaps it is because seen through the this point, the people in the middle of the night carnival before been so bored with bar.

lively and ambivalent fascination with me
SUSAN, a monthly income of 8,000 yuan, now lives in Guangzhou

Neon lights, bustling SUSAN favorite is the atmosphere. She does not like the night, but do not like loneliness, so she filled the night was arranged, until lie down in bed, one side off to sleep.

"If the evening does not fool around with the large group of people look at, I feel as if you have not seen the same day." Two years ago, close friends have largely not married, busy life so that there is no single SUSAN consciousness. "In the past, when younger, single concept does not exist." Inadvertently, when the night can be friends with her less and less time, "they are married, I did not realize their own became a single woman. "SUSAN We have also learned a bunch of friends in the bar Playing dice or just sitting in riverside chat, I feel extremely carefree. "This is the day shopping and a completely different feeling."

Let SUSAN depressed that a woman once married can only stay at home at night it seems. So, seeing friends, one by one, married, a bully can come out late into the night Hupenggouyou less and less, SUSAN start accustomed to take part in some stranger's party. The so-called strangers, it was no friend of a friend Bale. "I said, do not know why, even before the time of love, but also loved being with a group of people together." SUSAN do not like others look at her kind of "single woman" feeling. "In fact, even get married I would also like to maintain this single state, I know that is difficult, and I would rather now alone with the body."

Mother often wonder why she ran out every night, but it also can not bring a man back, so there have been half a year in order to satisfy his mother's determination to marry her 7 days a week, she said that there are at least five days his mother's supervision in the appointments and spent the meeting a prospective mate. "I told my friends that I went to each other they always do not believe, but also laughed at me so I am very angry." If not mother's nagging and tears, she did not know that they would not really "earth to go What on earth is the pro-phase. " But half a year later, SUSAN think that we should prepare for a day in the evening and prepare for the feeling of what really would like to go crazy. No mood to enjoy the night. "A person stay at home than I am still stuffy. In fact, even for prey out, also want an unknown, rather than the determination of meeting a prospective mate." She said that apart from busy night, she was fascinated by the ambiguity is to make the more important content.

My husband and I married two years, in addition to in love during that time, I rarely feel his love, I'm just extremely clear aware: network games is his favorite.

At home, he rarely speak to me. Our daily breakfast, lunch, have their own outside the settlement in the morning he always approaching 8:00 and we have to rush to get up, simply wash what would go visit the drive unit. Home from work every day, he took off his shoes and ran into a study to open the computer, and then use the computer boot time to making a cup of coffee, then sitting in front of the computer has been started magical world of the athletic field. I told him to make dinner out to eat, he often half-hearted to accompany me to eat the two dishes, put food loaded into a large bowl, Pengdao study to play the game while eating a.

When in love, he will accompany me shopping, watching movies, drinking coffee, can be from one to 10 pm, he would get together with to send me home, but also thoughtful to say that the girls coming home so late mother to worry about. At that time, I think he really is educated, behave well, there is awareness of the rules of a good man, and later realized it was because he want to go home to play games. Honeymoon Travel We went to Guilin, the day of the play, he patiently accompanied me, and one after dinner, he ran to find Internet cafes playing games, and a man threw me in the room watching television.

His work tired, and poor interpersonal relationships, it is particularly annoying to go to work, this may be his escape from reality, Internet direct cause of bar games. In addition to the Internet, he seems to have no other hobbies, and if the district had a sudden power failure, apart from sleep, there is no other role to play. I chat with him, he also has an A without a reply. From marriage to the present, very little communication between us every day to go home can not even say 10 words. I am very depressed, bid farewell to single, but it is more lonely than before, but had to wait on an indifference to their own man. I had fights with him, uttered, every time he would admit, will shed tears and begged me to stay, would ensure that no games can not survive the day, then sat down on the front of the computer, but he still spoke plausibly: "This is my only one of the hobbies and pastimes, and I work so hard every day, do you even that should be deprived of the right? "

Conscience that he is not without advantages: Thought and particularly simple, is not fighting eye-no calculating people, computer repair technology is also good, home computers to upgrade all of his own without getting home at a friend's computer is broken, he Shoudaobingchu.

In such a marriage, I lack is a sense of security. He did not plan to spend money, and never for the sake of our future; I do that he has never been indifferent. His argument is that a woman should be independent and not rely on others, but for me, he was someone else do?

I have a daughter advised me to an early birth to a child, saying that he would later have a child really grew up, there will be a sense of responsibility. However, the students around me friend's husband, became a father to do a lot of people are still infatuated with online games that I do not dare to take the risk.

Now I feel very contradictory separate bar with him, and felt that now can not explain his fascination with the game in addition they do not have much problems; wanted him to continue with it, are worried that he continued to indulge the network, I would never be able to lead others to do loving, warm family life. For the future, I really desperate.

"Mad Money" sounds like a commonplace topic. This from the fear of being abandoned by her husband and the women in ancient times to prevent the illegal possession of a property means, until today.

Over the years, regardless of their own money to talk about a man or a woman, are sly. However, until now, their own money from surreptitious "top secret accounts" into a resounding title of "PersonalMoney" - go their own discretionary money, anyway can not put out all the money home, their own money, how much to stay in Point themselves.

As a result, there are the topic today, women in this changing world, the number of their own money for himself to stay?
1 their own money should be used in wonderful
Qing Shu person: ZHONG Qi, 28-year-old woman of marriageable age three and a half years things
Since when save their own money: fast marriage began to save
Private houses Rationale: There are some things a man can not be expected to buy
Private houses experience: Anyway, was hidden point, we can not get too many, or if exposed, they hurt the feelings of the

ZHONG Qi and her husband are the Gold-collar worker, the two add together, the annual income of 400,000. Life without any economic troubles, though, ZHONG Qi still has its own small bank. The reason, ZHONG Qi thinks he is a luxury slave, and her husband feel to buy those things was a waste and vanity. To discuss the purchase with their quarrels, it is better to stay its own money to buy. Anyway, buy it back, the husband does not know how much money is to ask them, ZHONG Qi Jian Gui Mai also said the men anyway, the face of a woman's clothing and shoes, not much has always been the ability to distinguish.

In ZHONG Qi view, a woman, accompanied by the absence of material things are somewhat less than perfect, or even to so affect family harmony. Therefore, before marriage, ZHONG Qi save their own money on the thought of. In determining the marriage, ZHONG Qi there is a quasi-conscious control of her husband's part of the economic power. After marriage, husband and wife have the money to pay on the basic ZHONG Qi custody, she would take from the income of a small portion of the expenditure and then diverted from the interception point, small treasuries to enrich themselves slowly. The husband does not matter how say in household spending, specifically how much money he does not know, ZHONG Qi would be happy to save money.

May be an advantage to it, ZHONG Qi to her husband are also exceptionally gentle, couple's lead an easy life of course, flies exceptionally You Ziwei. ZHONG Qi believes that their own money also has merit in it.
2 is the well-being of their own money fund
Qing Shu person: XIA 29-year-old family-oriented woman of marriageable age 5 years
Since when save their own money: after two years of marriage
Private houses reasons: to prepare for emergency needs, be regarded as Family Fund
Private houses experience: their own money can make life being prepared, you can also bring surprises to their families

Family type XIA is the financial director of the family, all of the property of her care of the distribution of income. Husband, if you want to buy big-ticket, or did not smoke at the end of the money, should apply to the XIA.

Nevertheless, XIA was quietly established a small treasuries, of course, the money she is not used for their own consumption. But for this little family emergency and save a bit of extra warmth fund. This is due to her read a story: "A husband selling oil to the New Year's Eve day and found no money to the Chinese New Year, and are sad looking, the wife took out a small cylinder from the bed, is a tank full of oil.'s Wife say that you burden lug every morning before you leave home, I secretly scooped a spoonful into the tank, afraid that someday there Jiyong home. Then her husband to sell oil, the family had a good year. "
So XIA would also like to be a smart woman.

Today, XIA put the school and sell the story is, of course, not because of family problems are the days she was afraid that he might have had some urgent business, she can come up with the money to meet urgent needs. Now married five years, able to save tens of dollars a day in small treasuries, is already a lot of money, but XIA also take the money to do a small venture capital, surprise, they stand to gain a lot.
3 kinds of protection of their own money is
Qing Shu by: Lee on 34-year-old family-oriented woman of marriageable age 7 years
Since when save their own money: married three years later.
Private houses reasons: save more for their capital to survive.
Private houses experience: save their own money refused to concede defeat, but perhaps one day really useful.

If it is not three years ago, a betrayal of her husband, Lee can not remember save their own money on anyway. After that emotional pain, even though the family maintained the next. However, Li has lost its trust in her husband, and discovered to my horror the event of a divorce, own work is not so good even with very little money to maintain life, but that incident, Li that her husband also have their own money, but also is not a small number, actually bought a set of small to Valentine's room. Since then, she is conscious of doing business from the home where her husband moved to switch hands as well as the detention of some money. In several years, it has also scramble to save is not a small sum of money.

Although this anti-her husband live in LI hearts also resulted in confusion, but she thinks save their own money is also a guarantee of their own, but also have the right to fight for the interests and freedom.

Interpretation

Some people say that women keep their own money is a marriage and a lack of trust and a sense of security performance will lead to marital crisis. From the above three examples of point of view, this phenomenon, but by no means all, or even a slight percentage. More women keep their own money in order to make themselves and their families happy, so that a more harmonious and happy family.

So, some people objected that if the husband have the money and tolerance, they love themselves, women will keep their own money do? The answer will be kept. Because, after all, a woman is always a little bit cute little selfish, but also can not resist the temptation of material can be mysterious, to freely dispose of their own money to meet the material needs and as a woman's point vanity, it is no better thing. In a home, as long as the women meet, will not that one group harmony and warmth Well.
Tips
For possession of their own money do you have?
If there are 12 in line with you, then "approved" their own money in your possession.

1. You often fancy some "luxury goods" such as brand-name clothes, or jewelry, and do not want her husband to the price frown.
2. You revel in the joy save their own money.

3. You get used to plan ahead, to scramble to save their own money as the family's "emergency fund", out to meet their urgent needs.

5. Your husband is a plan do not understand money, he often hot-headed to do a move beyond the family budget.

6. You are born with is the lack of a sense of security of the animals, pairs of marital breakdown, and their offspring's future, the family worried about the economic crisis.